ASK JESSICA

Get Smart and Protect Your Heart

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We learn best from hearing someone else's story. Take an up-close look at other people's struggles by watching these videos in which I read aloud letters from my clients, and share some practical advice. 

All clients have given consent to share these letters for the benefit of helping others learn these important life lessons.

IF YOU WANT TO BE DESIRED, THEN BE DESIRABLE

BEWARE OF THE LOVE BOMBER

THE WRONG KIND OF LIGHT...THE GAS LIGHT

ALL LOSS AND NO GAIN IN THE NARCISSISTIC SMEAR CAMPAIGN

BE AWAKE: SAY "NO" TO SOFT RAPE!

BEING TRUE TO YOURSELF

GET OUT OF THE QUAGMIRE OF THE ENERGY VAMPIRE

IDEALIZATION AND DEVALUATION: THE NARCISSIST'S DAMNATION

LET'S NOT BE SILENT ABOUT THE SILENT TREATMENT

NARCISSISTIC PROJECTION: THE RELENTLESS INFECTION

NO TAKERS FROM FUTURE FAKERS

THE ATTACK OF THE FLYING MONKEYS

THE CURTAIN OF CODEPENDENCY - LIFTING THE VEIL

THE MASK OF THE FALSE SELF: MALIGNANT NARCISSISM

THE PRESENT IN PRESENCE

TORTURE BY TRIANGULATION

WHEN "NO" MEANS "YES" AND HOW TO GET OUT OF THIS MESS